One should devise one of those personality tests that determines your personality by the jokes you make about others. Did you never judge someone or have been judged by the type of things you find funny? Others may often not be of the same opinion and therefore many – even well-intentioned – jokes can be very hurtful to those on the receiving end.
And to answer your questions: no I haven’t been targeted by incompatible humor (at least no in the last few days/weeks that I remember anything). I just thought about this that’s all.